In my work, I have to help people as a last resort, after everyone has let them down and I am their last chance to regain their freedom.
But although they ask for help, although they need my help, they are often unable to receive it, and either intentionally or involuntarily sabotage all my efforts. They are not used to being helped and do not know how to get help. It is very discouraging.
For my part, as a liberal profession, nobody would help me in the event of a hard blow, except my family, but my family could not withstand a very violent blow, of course.